Being a leader when things are working our fine is something we are always good at. We celebrate success more than what we should be doing and we mourn failure more than what it deserves too.
As human beings, we have a desire for certainty and routine that keeps us feeling safe and able to plan what lies ahead in an organized manner.
When unpredictable situations or accidents impact us, it can be traumatic, and we will likely feel a sense of disappointment, frustration, and loss.
If someone is going through a hard time, especially when things take a different turn from what is expected, it is not 100% about what the person could/should have done but more about how they recover. As a generation that has spent more time in front of non-living things - television, computer, phone, factory machinery, we must question ourselves about something really important.
Are we slowly turning more apathetic to other human beings? Are we being too judgemental like the robotic voice of big-boss that makes livings a circus where you are just being judged all the time?
Is failure really a failure? Is it for now or for life?
Is success for life or it is just a phase of life?
How do you determine, if a person can do or cannot do certain things? Is it worth taking a risk about something just by their past or a single mistake or success?
Are we trying to take decisions based on certain qualities or how you feel about someone rather than simply relying on their past? I urge you to be open to possibilities.
May be you would see a day when your bet pays off. If not, you can still learn from that.
Only a person who went through chaos can really have a fighting chance to survive in it.
#BeOpen #OpenDoors #GiveChances #Takeupachallenge #MondayBlues #PositivePsychologist @Talktotiger
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